Posted on January 21, 2010.
What should I do for my daughter, she is so shy and afraid of any .... please help? When my husband and I take her to a place called Kindergym with all Sorts of children to play with (she is 3 1 / 2 way) it just cling to us and when we try to play with other children, she crystals. We did not make him do anything. Is this just a phase? Hope! It does not go to daycare or anything, do you begin, do you think could help you? The baby sister loves going to Kindergym to watch all the kids run around, (she is 6 months) I should just take her sister instead and leave the year 3 1 / 2 old at home for a some time until she gets over it? There is no fear for her there. Parents can stay and talk to them all kids play. It is the only child crying. What should I do? Thank you to answer all my questions!
This is normal. It is in new surroundings with strangers. Yes, it sounds as if your daughter would benefit from preschool. From what you described, he should be a little time to adjust. But eventually she began to participate more and more. Some children can step right into a new atmosphere and just her. While others need encouragement. The next time you visit the kindergym not try to play with other children. Suffice it to say that your daughter: "I'm going to the block area to build a house. Want to help? "It is likely she will say no, but you will. Say 'It's ok if you do not want to help me build a house, you can watch" Talk to Her as you build your house. "I'll put a roof on my house. Look, I parked a car in the driveway." If there are other children in the region to begin to talk to them and involve them in what you do. be asked if they would help you put a fireplace in the house. What can I use for windows? Then, slowly, begin to involve your daughter ... ask a question that involves a bit of participation. What color block should I use for the door? What form should I use? When she starts to answer these questions, then you go a little further. Update on the block that you think I should use to the window. Excellent idea! Would you put on? This will take time. He can not take this time it may take one or several visits. And since this is not something she does every day, this process can take place whenever you visit the center.
My youngest daughter was the same way. Extremely shy We have started him in infancy to 3, then she went to pre-k. It did not start talking to school until she was in second year. She is always well behaved at school, but talking and making friends. They grow out of it others take longer than others.
my 4 year old daughter now, but she did the same thing when she was three, she cries and clings to mom and dad I would try to put it in kindergarten is what we did in about 2 months, she looks forward to go with her she will become independent
My daughter is exactly the same and some useful deciced to force her to be away from me, even if it were a play group and did not need to lose sight of the fact that c ' is so much worse. She is 8 now and still very timid. I have his foot in his classroom every morning. I think your daughter will always be too shy, but I do not want to leave home, just stay close to her. it will get better the older she gets. just be there for her
When you get a response plz let me know that my daughter and 8yr has been like that since day one. VERY shy to cry when he leaves somewhere do not talk to anyone, will do nothing, we tried to put it into activitedes and crystals all the time there and I make him suck and do it and then is fine. But his nightmare of a hand, I do not want to "push" her in t.